Forgiving the inexcusable by Shadrack Andibo

From the streets of Nairobi to the private corners of our hearts, this book speaks to the everyday person who has been hurt, betrayed, disappointed, or pushed to their limit. With honesty, wisdom, and pastoral warmth, Shadrack Andibo takes you on a journey through real stories—some heartbreaking, some astonishing—showing that forgiveness is not weakness, naïveté, or pretending the pain didn’t happen. It’s power. It’s freedom. It’s the doorway to a life no longer controlled by bitterness.

You will walk through the anatomy of offense, the trap of resentment, and the heavy toll anger takes on your soul. You’ll learn how to deal with difficult people with grace, how to forgive when it feels impossible, how to pursue reconciliation without losing yourself, and how justice and forgiveness can actually stand side by side. Along the way, you’ll meet people, both Kenyan and global, whose courageous acts of forgiveness have stunned the world.

Whether you are struggling to forgive others, battling to forgive yourself, or wrestling with the feeling that even God has let you down, this book opens a path toward healing, hope, and a new beginning.

For anyone tired of carrying old wounds, Forgiving the Inexcusable is a compelling reminder that grace is stronger than anger, and that no story is beyond redemption.