Ok, I Am Healed Now, Send Me Another Man Dating Intentionally After Divorce by Oyuga, Felgonah

This book is provocative, and insightful, and challenges conventional wisdom about relationships, especially for divorced African women seeking to return to the dating scene.

It dismantles the romanticized notions of love and relationships perpetuated by Western media, arguing that they are harmful and unrealistic, particularly in the context of relationships with African men. This sets the stage for a deeper discussion about cultural differences in expressing love and expectations within relationships.

The book strongly emphasizes women taking control of their lives and making conscious choices within their relationships, rather than passively accepting societal norms or their partner’s dictates.